Hi Steph,
I applied for my partner visa in September 2013, and at that time, it was 8-9 months processing time. I know the waiting is awful, but I just put it to the back of my mind. You start doubting whether you'll get it, thinking of extra things you could have added in to your evidence, and wondering what on earth they're doing. I think it's just a matter of course. Sure enough, almost 8 months to the day after they received my application, my visa was granted. I doubt very much you'll hear anything before the 12 month mark, but the time will fly afterwards. We spent another 7 and a half months in London after my visa was granted, and it felt like it was gone so quickly. It's hard waiting, but don't wish the time away.