Hi all. Sorry for the length of this post but I am having a wobble...
I am quite new to this forum but have been surfing the sister site Poms in Oz. I have found that some people on the site can be quite negative about Oz and this has caused me to have a wobble!!!
We received our Visa Invite on Sunday and have completed all of the information requested online but still need to submit payment. I am relatively sure I want to do this but I have so many concerns and worries. My sister in law lives in Rockingham and is desperate for us to join her.
I am 42 and my husband is 35 so I see this as our last chance to emigrate to Oz which we toyed with for a long time. I also have Aussie family in Melbourne. My mother in law has said she will apply for a contributory parent visa if both her children are in Oz! She's like my hubbie and nothing fazes her!!!
I am originally from the UK but have lived offshore for 20 years so I am used to being away from my close family. Still, being the other side of the world is scary scary thought!
We have 3 children aged 6, 6 and 8 all at private school. They all love Oz and I'm sure they will settle there well. It's just me I who is worrying...and I do tend to worry!
So what worries me....
What are the schools like...will I and the children like school in Oz?
Will they get the same opportunities both in school and in their activities as they do now? My eldest loves maths, physics and is extremely sporty representing our island in both swimming and rugby.
Will my hubbie get a good job? We both have good jobs here but need a change. We both work at a senior level and are both qualified accountants.
Will we make friends? I have made loads of friends here over the years but probably only have half a dozen I can really truly rely on.
Are we just not really appreciating what we have here?
Do we just need a change: take a bit of a risk enjoy the ride and if we don't like it get off? We've done it before when we took a year out to do a ski season 10 years ago.
?????arrrrggggg!!!!
Hubbie says if I don't want to do it we won't go but I know he wants this so badly and I do too (i couldn't wipe the smile off my face when we received our visa invitation) and I know it's not the end of the world we can always come back (although I potentially will lose my residency where I have lived for the past 20 years and so will my children so we would be reliant on my hubbie residential status to come home).
Any advice, reassurance/ positive feedback would be appreciated.
Cheers
Lou