Hey Mike
You two seem to be in a similar position to us. We are even from Notts,just a bit further north near Doncaster. We have a great life here,we have been given the best gift in the world,our son Callum. We are lucky that my partner Anne can stay at home and look after him. I work for myself so ultimately if I want to knock off early,start late,or even have a day off,I can. We have a lovely home and enjoy a good life here.
In OZ,I will have to start again. Having to retrain,starting as an apprentice almost,and work my way up again. At the age of 42,that will be fun!
We are taking my parents only grandson to the other side of the world. If it doesn't work out,we will have blown a whole load of cash and will return to the UK practically skint and I will have to work for somebody again.
So why do it? Because we can. What if things do work out? What if we love our new life over there? We are not kids chasing a dream. We can try it. We will try it. If you are both strong,enjoy life,and enjoy a challenge. Why not? My biggest regret would be lying on my bed just about to wander off to the pearly gates thinking. "I wish I had tried........"
Cheers